Since Sophia is very busy learning how to erase our mistakes, I'm going to post an email she sent to Lauren and I a couple of days ago summarizing the dos and don'ts for getting the guy you like - the flower dress theory.
- They can't read our mind;
- When we complain, they feel awful, like the worst man on earth and therefore, they run:
- They hate seeing us suffer, therefore, they run;
- They feel responsible for everything that affect us and, if it is a negative thing, they suffer, therefore, they run;
- Do not withhold feelings, if something is bothering you, speak up, BUT ALWAYS IN A NICE WAY. If you keep everything that is bothering you, eventually you will explode, dump everything on them (him). They don't understand a thing, think you are crazy, feel bad and responsible and, therefore, they run.
Conclusion (aka, the "flower dress"):
- Be nice. Smile, be pretty and happy. Don't make him responsible for your happiness or pain. And, if something is bothering, speak up, but try not to make him think as he is the worst man on earth and responsible for all the pain you are feeling.
Anne for Sophia
- They can't read our mind;
- When we complain, they feel awful, like the worst man on earth and therefore, they run:
- They hate seeing us suffer, therefore, they run;
- They feel responsible for everything that affect us and, if it is a negative thing, they suffer, therefore, they run;
- Do not withhold feelings, if something is bothering you, speak up, BUT ALWAYS IN A NICE WAY. If you keep everything that is bothering you, eventually you will explode, dump everything on them (him). They don't understand a thing, think you are crazy, feel bad and responsible and, therefore, they run.
Conclusion (aka, the "flower dress"):
- Be nice. Smile, be pretty and happy. Don't make him responsible for your happiness or pain. And, if something is bothering, speak up, but try not to make him think as he is the worst man on earth and responsible for all the pain you are feeling.
Anne for Sophia
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